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Finances in Divorce: Liabilities

High Asset Divorce

The other side of your finances in divorce is liabilities. Liabilities are the mortgages, home equity lines of credit, credit...

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Financial Transparency is the Best Solution During a High Net Worth Divorce

High Asset Divorce

Creating the Ground Rules for Financial Transparency “Taking a thing apart is always faster than putting something together. This is...

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Can Mediation and Collaborative Law Work for High-Net-Worth Divorces?

Collaborative Divorce

The other week, I attended an interesting talk on financial considerations for high-net-worth women going through a divorce. The talk...

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Compelling Evidence That Collaborative Divorce Works

Collaborative Divorce, Divorce

Divorce is inevitably an emotional journey, but it doesn’t have to be a hostile one. Collaborative divorce is a way...

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You Want a Prenup, Your Significant Other Does Not

Prenups & Postnups

You love your partner and have confidence in your future marriage, but you think entering a prenuptial agreement is wise....

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It’s Spring, and the Prenups Are Blooming

Prenups & Postnups

Because people tend to get married in summer, late winter and early spring are always prenup seasons, that’s why we...

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When to Leave Your Marriage?

Preparing for divorce

Should I get a divorce? If you’re asking that question, you’re far from alone. According to a national study, about...

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Finances in Divorce: Assets

High Asset Divorce, Prenups & Postnups

Regarding the assets, it’s important to note that what’s included and excluded from the marital estate is not always clear....

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Getting Married for the First Time in Your 40s: Why You Need a Prenuptial Agreement

Prenups & Postnups

If you’re marrying for the first time in your 40s, entering a prenuptial agreement becomes especially important. You’re most likely...

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Parenting & Divorce: The Impacts of Divorce

Children, Children in Divorce, Family Court

I attended a great panel talk the other week on parenting through divorce. The talk was organized by Elise Pettus,...

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Parenting & Divorce: Typical Child Behaviors

Children, Children in Divorce, Family Court

I attended a great panel talk the other week on parenting through divorce. The talk was organized by Elise Pettus,...

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Parenting & Divorce: Tips For Parents

Children, Children in Divorce, Family Court

I attended a great panel talk the other week on parenting through divorce. The talk was organized by Elise Pettus,...

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Property Division During a New York and Connecticut Divorce

Divorce, High Asset Divorce

Marriage is a financial partnership in which both spouses contribute to the whole rather than the individual. Regardless of what...

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Can You Ask for a Prenup After You’ve Gotten Married?

Prenups & Postnups

Before you married, you may not have given much thought to obtaining a prenup or didn’t understand the value of...

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Calming Your Kids’ Anxieties About Splitting Time Over the Holidays

Children in Divorce, Coparenting

The holidays are a time of wonder and excitement for children. While parents do their best to keep this season...

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Should I Wait To Divorce After The Holidays Or Do It Now?

Children in Divorce, Divorce, Holidays

The festive season is upon us, a time of year when we gather with family and friends to share joy,...

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Divorce and Your Estate Plan

Divorce

When people marry they often make preparations which include taking out insurance policies, making health care and financial directives, drafting...

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Holding On To Your Horses: Navigating Equine Assets in Divorce

Animals in Divorce, Divorce

Divorce proceedings are complex and fraught with emotional and financial challenges, and when horses are part of the marital assets,...

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Tips On How To Survive Divorce During The Holiday Season

Divorce, Holidays

Navigating the holiday season amidst a divorce can feel like trying to dance gracefully on a tightrope — balancing emotions,...

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Finding Your Voice: Strategies to Help You Speak Up for Yourself During Divorce Mediation

Collaborative Divorce, Divorce, Divorce mediation

The Miller Law Group is pleased to provide this guest post by Meghan Freed, Esq., co-founder of award-winning Connecticut divorce...

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Thanksgiving Challenge: Giving Thanks and Staying Positive

Divorce

By Joy A. Dryer, PhD. Giving thanks on Thanksgiving can be a challenge when you are divorced. You may be...

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Newly Divorced Over the Holidays? Dos and Don’ts for Making Holiday Plans

Divorce with children

The first holiday season after a divorce can be difficult for everyone. Parents may find themselves taking on new responsibilities...

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What to Do If Your Significant Other Refuses to Sign a Prenup

Prenups & Postnups

You love your fiancé and have faith in your relationship. Yet, you know that if anything goes wrong in the...

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What Will Get You “Cancelled” in Divorce? Don’t Do These 3 Divorce No-Nos.

Divorce, Divorce mediation, High Asset Divorce

Maintaining a civil relationship with your spouse during divorce can be a real challenge, but it is worth it. Being...

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Understanding ‘Stuckness’ in Marriage Through the Lens of Collaborative Divorce

Collaborative Divorce, Divorce

Being “stuck” in a marriage evokes an image of sinking slowly into quicksand. No matter how much you struggle, there’s...

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Navigating the Path Together: The Power of Collaborative Divorce in 2023

Collaborative Divorce, Divorce

Divorce has become an inevitable part of many journeys in the complex landscape of modern relationships. Exploring evolving approaches to...

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Westchester Visitation Lawyer

Divorce, Preparing for divorce

Visitation rights are one of the most critical issues for any couple going through a divorce. The initial divorce, child...

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The Intersection Of Estate Planning And Divorce

Divorce, Prenups & Postnups

Think through the impact of your divorce on your estate plan, so that the two pieces work seamlessly together, instead...

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Divorce After a Long Marriage: How to Rebuild Your Life

Divorce

You stayed with your spouse far longer than you should have, but you‘ve finally pulled the plug and gotten divorced....

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New York Child Support Guide – Everything You Need To Know

Child Support, Children in Divorce, Family Court

Most parents going through a separation or divorce, whether in mediation, Collaborative Law, or court-based litigation, are aware that some...

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What Is Divorce Coaching And How Can It Help?

Divorce

Harriet Lerner writes in The Dance of Connection, “Perhaps nothing leaves us more vulnerable than the threat of relationship loss....

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8 Advantages Of Collaborative Divorce

Collaborative Divorce

Once you know what defines the process, it’s important to know why you might want to choose it over more...

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Conflict Resolution: Change Your Perspective

Divorce, Divorce mediation

Find some objectivity to translate conflict into problem-solving. I have a dear old friend who I value for her willingness...

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Parental Alienation: Everything You Need To Know

Children in Divorce, Divorce with children, Family Court

Recently I spoke to Charlie Jamison on my radio show, Divorce Dialogues. Charlie is a Board-certified Marital and Family Law...

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Post-Divorce Dating Profiles That Work

Dating, Post-Divorce

Getting Out There! Do’s and Don’ts of an Online Dating Profile With nearly 2,500 online dating sites in the US alone,...

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Mother And Daughter Relationship During Divorce

Children in Divorce, Divorce

The mother and daughter relationship is unique. There’s a special bond forged through a lifetime of advice, companionship, strength, and...

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Mindful Co-Parenting After Divorce: The 6 Keys

Children in Divorce, Coparenting, Divorce with children, Family Court

Divorce can cause a lot of sleepless nights. Worries about joint property and investments, co-owned businesses, not to mention peace,...

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We Are Thinking About Divorce, Can I Move Out?

Divorce, Preparing for divorce

Move Out in Divorce “My wife wants me to move out.” We hear this sentence frequently. Oftentimes, the spouse says...

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Actions As Evidence: How Your Threats and Insults Can Cost you Custody

Custody, Divorce, Divorce with children, Family Court

Actions As Evidence: Shifting Your Mindset in Divorce  Divorce can be disorienting. Things you thought you knew about your spouse...

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Divorce After An Affair

Adultery, Divorce

I frequently meet with new clients shortly after they or their spouses have revealed or discovered an affair. This is...

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True Empathy: What Feeling Another’s Pain Requires

Collaborative Divorce, Preparing for divorce

“Empathy” is a popular—and often misused—term. What people usually mean when they talk about “having empathy” is “kindness” or perhaps...

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The Storm Out: What Is It, Why We Do It, What To Do

Collaborative Divorce, Mediation

What Is A Storm Out? Sometimes in divorce negotiations, whether in mediation or collaborative sessions, someone gets upset or feels...

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Divorce When The Woman Is The Breadwinner

Divorce, High Asset Divorce

Does It Make A Difference If The Woman Is The Breadwinner? It’s human nature to want to call money “yours”...

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Threats As Evidence In Divorce

Divorce

The Right Way to Deal with Legal Threats As Evidence In Divorce “I was never ruined but twice—once when I...

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PROTECTING CHILDREN IN DIVORCE

Children in Divorce, Collaborative Divorce, Divorce

I had been a divorce litigator for 10 years when I faced divorce myself. At the time, I was spending...

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How to Move on After Divorce

Divorce

People in the process of divorce find themselves at the intersection of what was and what will be. That intersection...

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Reproductive Technology Law

Divorce, Reproductive Technology

Families are built in a variety of wondrous ways. When your family-building journey involves assisted reproductive technology, surrogates, gestational carriers,...

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Westchester Post Divorce Estate Planning Lawyer

Divorce, Post-Divorce, Preparing for divorce

After a divorce, everything changes — even your estate planning needs. As part of finalizing matters and moving forward with...

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Calculating Spousal Maintenance in Westchester

Divorce

When a couple goes through a divorce, it can have a significant economic impact on both spouses, and it can...

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Divorce Financial Planning

Collaborative Divorce

People getting divorced generally do not want to destroy their lives. In fact, people who chose divorce often do so...

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Child Custody Decisions & Sports Safety

Children in Divorce, Coparenting

Divorce and Co-parenting: Who Has the Final Say About Dangerous Sports? Co-parenting can be challenging under the best of circumstances....

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Common Surrogacy Agreement Mistakes

Children, Reproductive Technology

Biggest Surrogacy Agreement Mistakes One of the biggest decisions you can make in life is adding to your family. And...

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What New York’s Changes to Surrogacy Laws May Mean for Parents and Surrogates

Reproductive Technology

There are few things more joyful than a new baby. Whether you expand your family through pregnancy, adoption, assisted reproductive...

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YOUR DIVORCE DOES NOT DEFINE YOU

Collaborative Divorce

Even when we are hurt, angry, sad and confused many of us try to find an honest and authentic voice...

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